HOW TO MAKE STRONGER BOND WITH LOVED ONES?
In any relationship there are some things that need to be taken care, such as love, trust, understanding nature towards each other, taking care, sacrificing things for each other’s happiness. These things create a beautiful bond and the bond should be so strong that no one can ruin it and can never be affected or influenced by someone else. But the question arises is why bond is so important? What role does a strong bond plays in a successful life? These questions we will be discussing here.
REASONS OF WEAKENING OF BONDS
Bonds between two is the most sensitive as well as strong point in relationship.
The base of a relationship is the trust which needs to be maintained to have a special bond with the loved ones and the trust and bond is affected by many factors, the main reasons that how a bond of a relationship is affected are-
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING:-
If there are a lot of misunderstandings between two people and they are unable to understand each other, then there is a higher possibility that their relationship can worsen or break. Understanding can be improved by spending more time and sharing important things with each other, the misunderstanding always arises when there is lack of knowledge about a person and lack to communication. Just spend quality time together and know things about each other, if the person is not opening to you then just give him/her some time to open himself/herself and try to place him/her in the comfort zone.
Trust is the base of any relationship and if the two people don’t trust on each other then the relationship becomes meaningless. When both of them don’t trust each other, then that relationship becomes difficult to manage and seems impossible.
Note down that trust is not made in a day or two; it takes a lot of time to be built. Keep one thing in mind that never lie to your partner a great trust can be broken in a minute just because a small lie.Once you lie in a relationship than your partner will lost his/her believe in you and he/she will be predicting and expecting more lies from you in future and that’s the point where trust is vanished.
Now the key to rebuilt the trust is take a pledge to not lie again and tell your partner about that pledge and open up, accept the mistakes that you made and convince him/her to believe on you again. This thing totally depend your partner that he/she will trust you again or not as sometimes the mistakes left deep scares which becomes difficult to forget and forgive but still hope for best and never fear in accepting the problems.
RUMORS SPREAD BY DIFFERENT PEOPLE:-
The point here is when u has lack of trust you start believing ever rumors about your partner and this invites huge misunderstandings and problems in one’s life.
An important thing which needs to be understand here is never believe any rumors about anyone (not just about your partner) until and unless you have seen the things from eyes or if you seen any proofs about it. Rumors are like predication’s, you hear you predict on pity and baseless things and end up losing trust and your relationship. When there is no trust in any relationship, then outsiders take advantage of it and make the relationship more difficult for them and try to break it, because in today’s time, people are never happy in somebody’s happiness. People spread rumors to bring storm in their lives.
HOW CAN WE IMPROVE BONDS?
The relationship is like a plant, which we have to take care of, that it has the right amount of love, understanding, trust and care. If for some reason the quantity is reduced or increased, the relationship can worsen. We have to maintain any relationship wholeheartedly and the way to maintain the bond of that relationship is that we should praise each other’s good qualities and ignore the minor and major false moves.
If that person is the one we love so much, even if he hurt or speaks bad words to us, then it is better to forgive him if he apologize which open heart to us. As it is said by someone “IGNORANCE IS BLISS”, which is true as well at some point because if we don’t forgive others then it will be difficult for us to survive in that any relationship. When we are in any kind of relationship, we should think that this relationship is our first responsibility or our first priority and we have to give our hundred percent to make it successful.
The best formula of having perfect relationship is that do not blame the person in front of anyone for anything and do not insult them in the public; always respect their feelings and take care of their Self Respect. The things that you want to discuss and solve, do that in private and correct each other later.
DIFFERENT BONDS WITH LOVED ONES (200 WORDS):-
Bond of love is not just with Girlfriend/Boyfriend or Husband/Wife; we have much more love bonds in our life other than these. With mom, dad, friends, pet and even with our self, all the connections in which we feel love, we are taken care is the Bond of Love.
BOND OF A MOTHER AND HER CHILDREN:-
The bond between a mother and the children is unique in its own way and cannot be compared with any other bond. A mother can do anything for their children, sacrifices all her dreams and ignores all her needs for the sake of her children. On the other hand, children put all their efforts to become successful in life and to make their parents proud on them. According to us this is the most beautiful and adorable Bond of Love as nothing can be compared to the love of Mother.
BOND OF A COUPLE:-
The bond and love of a couple is incomparable too as this is also a special bond in its own way. Both the persons sacrifice some of the things for the happiness of each other. Bond between a couple is so strong and amazing that they can do anything for each other whether it’s impossible for them, but still they do because of their partner’s happiness. They love each other unconditionally and are afraid of losing each other.
BOND BETWEEN FRIENDS:-
Friendship is the ship of relations between two or more people which has no rules and regulations. It is a pure and golden relation between two or friends and their bond of friendship being flawless and remarkable.The bond between them indicates that the true connection can be built even if they don’t belong from the same family and different blood.
To become a successful person in life, one should know how to manage all the relationships. To overcome the rift of relationships we need to completely clean the dust of misunderstandings from deeper inside. We can go on a trip with them and share all the thoughts of our mind. Relationships are like flowers until they are taken care of, but when the problems come in, then they are wither and both of them break down from within. That is why it is important to take care of each and every relationship of our lives because they matter to us.